Inner Game Tapping

Unleashing The Confident Pick-Up Artist Within You,
using Emotional Freedom Techniques

"Overall I was so much more relaxed than usual... I did not have a negative thought in my head." - Matthew M, Southampton

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Approach Anxiety

Work through this video a couple of times and you should notice a dramatic difference in your Approach Anxiety. It also includes some explanation of how tapping works. Watch this video first!

Watch this video right now, and participate - it will work for you, but only if you follow the instructions carefully. Pause it if you need more time to focus in on the feelings that come up in your body.

For maximum benefit repeat the process as many times as possible, with or without the video.

Questions? - If it's not working for you, try the Inner Game Tapping Forum.

Tapping Summary

The idea of the video is very simple.

  1. Use your imagination to feel the feeling you get when you think about approaching a set
  2. Tap the points and neutralise the feeling
  3. Repeat for each layer of the feeling until there is nothing left

Here is the tapping sequence.

Tap the Karate Chop Point and say "Even though I get this feeling, I deeply and completely accept myself"

Now tap the following points while saying ONLY "Even though I get this feeling"

  • Thumb (outside of the bottom corner of the nail)
  • Forefinger
  • Middle finger
  • Little finger (skip ring finger)

  • Collar bone
  • Indent of Chin
  • Under the Nose
  • Corner of Eye/Bridge of Nose
  • Outside Corner of Eye
  • Under the Eye


Q: This is very weird!

A: So is going out in groups of guys to 'practice' hitting on women. Get over it.

Q: Does it really work?

A: It works for anyone with a nervous system. Check out the Testimonials for some social proof.

Q: How does it work?

A: There is a perfectly scientific explanation, you can read a bit more here about How Tapping Works. You don't need to know how it works to apply it to your life - that's just another negative belief.

I mean, do you really know how your car works? Or how your computer works? Do you know how women work? You may think you have an idea how these things work, but when it comes down to it, our understanding is actually pretty limited. Don't get hung up on it. A better question to ask, is...

Q: What can I apply this to?

A: You can apply Tapping to pretty much any area of your life where you are not getting the results you need. If you want more money, look at all your negative feelings towards rich people - they are stopping you becoming rich because your subconscious mind doesn't want you to become like them. My forthcoming e-book will show you how to apply Tapping to anything.

Q: Is it permanent?

A: Approach Anxieties are learned. So it's permanent until you learn it again. Most of the anxieties are learned during childhood, so you probably won't learn them again. Some of them are learned when you get bad reactions from girls in the field, so if you get a bad reaction in the future you may need to tap for that.

Q: Mystery says Approach Anxiety is Hard-Wired

A: Mystery has never tried Tapping his away.