Inner Game Tapping

Unleashing The Confident Pick-Up Artist Within You,
using Emotional Freedom Techniques

I actually now enjoy the process of meeting new girls, and I now use tapping for all aspects in my life... This has made me feel lighter emotionally and has helped me not take things too seriously. - Aidan, Australia

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Sloal, London

"By working on all these other areas of my life, removing all the bad affirmations that led me to smoke over the last few months, I have realised that I had inadvertantly removed my perceived need to smoke."

Wow.

So, I have been reading about the Seduction community for months now learning everything I can and trying (very unsuccessfully) to apply it when I am out and about.

I started Styles Stylelife challenge but got behind and struggled with the field work. I was hit by the most awesome Approach Anxiety (as are and/or were most others in this community) and I just could not find a way through it. Brute force just wasn't doing it for me.

I signed up to Magnus' Seminar and OMG, the world has opened up, sucked me in, kept me there churning me, moulding me, rebuilding me and has spat me out a totally different person.

I'm not sure if Magnus put something in the water, but I feel drunk. I left the seminar with a big grin. All them silly little excuses and fears that I had before, I can't even remember what they were or what they feel like.

I'm not cured by any stretch, but after some rigourous Tapping over the next few weeks and the next 4 weeks with Magnus I KNOW my problems are going to be gone and I can become the approach machine I have been destined to be since The Game dropped into my lap in March.

The very first thing we tapped was my fear of feeling stupid... straight after he asked me again "What's holding you back from approaching". I REALLY wanted and tried to say a fear of feeling stupid... but no matter how hard I tried I just couldn't say the words and had to quicky come up with another answer.

3 Hours of tapping away LOTS more bad feelings, memories and emotions and I feel like a new person. And that is just one session. I feel a foot taller... couldn't wipe that sodding smirk off my face all the way home and I swear I was floating. I floated onto the escalator on the tube and didn't get that little shock of moving on a moving floor.. i just, kinda floated on.... That actaully freaked me out a bit!!!

All in all... thanks Magnus, an AWESOME session and I can't wait till next Thursday. I know I still need a lot of work.. but Fuck, if I feel this much better now, then I can't wait to see how much better I feel in a month's time.

I recommend EVERYONE who has approach anxiety grab your cash and stick it to this man. It's the best thing you'll do!

Cheers

Sloal.

Update:

So I am still a total AFC when it comes to my PU techniques, since I only came across this community a few months ago. And have made very few cold approaches because of my immense Approach Anxiety.

Last night was the first time I hit the town with my mates (non PU-mates) and I started chatting to a girl onteh tube on the way in (easy open, emptyish carriage and she got trapped in the doors as she got on.. so an easy situational opener).

Then out in the bars, I was happily openeing sets. The first set I opened was a group of about 8 girls all sitting there chatting away. My game sucked and ejected after about 5 minutes, but I didn't care. After talking about the group to a mate for a couple of minutes, I would normally think I SHOULD approach them but get all my AA. Last night, after talking about the group "being there" I suddenly realised that I wasn't feeling any of the AA symptoms I normally do. So I said to my mate, ok I gotta do this and went straight over to them. Bang, easy. No fear.

Then a couple more girls that I had "Proxoimity" with were easy conversations. Again, my game sucked, but I didn't care. I wasn't trying to pickup, just prove to myself that I could approach and get myself in the game in the first place.

Cheers again Magnus. I have finally found the missing link that I have been looking for the last few months.

I have a bit of a bruise around my eye from all the tapping.. but what the hell... it's worth it!

Sloal

I have been attending Magnus' EFT workshops for the last 4 weeks and have found the results staggering. We have covered many topics, such as Approach Anxiety, fear of escalation, confidence, forgiveness, and many others. In all of these areas I feel that my life has improved. Most noticably by being a much more confident personality in all aspects of my life and less restricted by bad past experiences.

Through this time something else changed without me actually noticing. Over a year ago, I officially quit smoking. I went fine for a long period of time, until a powerful anti-smoking device (ex-girlfriend) was suddenly not there any more to keep me on the right track. I found myself starting to social smoke again. After a few beers, I would find myself nervous around new groups of people and light up, or bored with no-one to talk to and light up, or being with a group of smokers, and light up to fit in. I had already identified the reasons I was lighting up and I hated myself for it. As soon as it was in my mouth I would think "what a dick, why are you doing this?". But of course, one cigarette led to another and another and another. And in the morning, tired and hungover I would beat myself up about it, because I knew that I really didn't want to smoke. But over 10 years of being a smoker I had just built up all these associations and I had it in my head that this was a comfort activity to deal with these uncomfortable situations.

After spending a few weeks attending these EFT seminars, I have become a much more confident person, and rearely find myself in the bored, or nervous situations that I did before. I also feel much more that I am the "prize" that that I don't need to look "cool" in front of anyone, because I just am that cool person.

So, by working on all these other areas of my life, removing all the bad affirmations that led me to smoke over the last few months, I have realised that I had inadvertantly removed my perceived need to smoke.

So, this one fact has proved to myself that EFT works and I have removed these long standing negative affirmations that led me to be a social smoker. I no longer need it's comfort. And I didn't have to do a thing about it. It wasn't even a concious decision! Just getting rid of the negative emotions in my life got rid of my need to smoke. Easy, no effort required!

On another side note, EFT, along with learning various techniques of the game, have actually reduced my desire to get drunk and binge drink every weekend. Preferring to keep my wits about me, I have learnt that I have much better nights without being pissed, and actually enjoy my nights a lot more. I no-longer need to drink to "warm-up" and "get in the mood". I am a much happier, social, energetic and charismatic person, by removing any social inhabitions I may have had.

Thanks Magnus.... You've done in a few short weeks what I have been fighting to do for the last 6 months!

Sloal

4 months later, I asked Sloal if he still felt the same way about the workshop:

I have pretty much stayed the same. I haven't been tapping for a while, which I was thinking about recently - I guess I haven't felt the need. I still don't have any Approach Anxiety and I'm still not smoking.

I guess I am doing a lot of other things as well!! A lot of things that I have wanted to do for a long time have just come together!